Take a breath
Feel your body come alive as you fill it with air. Now take another one as you focus on my touch.
What can you feel?
I am Sinsia – the queer sex coach – and I am here to support
you in creating the sex life of your choice.
Somatic sex coaching
By using body-focussed exercises, we allow your body to direct us
You are the expert on your own body, so sessions are always a co-creation
I have extensive experience and joy in working with with lgbtqia+ people
I am trained to notice and handle trauma responses
With your body as our guide, we will explore desires, boundaries, and pleasure and what they actually feel like in your body.
What do you notice in your body when something truly wonderful happens? Or when you go along with something that is not that great?
Together we will build a practice that helps you notice, value and communicate your desires and boundaries, so that you can start making empowered choices about your (sex) life.
Work with me
if you want to:
- explore budding curiosities around your sexuality;
- feel more connected to your body;
- experience more pleasure;
- explore what ‘pleasure’ means to you;
- (re)connect to pleasure after surgery and/or trauma;
- explore scar tissue remediation;
- be more present in your sexuality;
- have more control over if, when, and how you orgasm;
- prioritise your desires over what you think you ‘should’ want;
- learn to notice, value and communicate your boundaries as they come up;
- create a (sex) life centered around what actually feels good, instead of chasing a goal.
Hi! I am Sinsia,
and I simply love bodies and all they can tell us.
I am endlessly curious about what brings us pleasure. What makes us feel safe enough to enjoy our body? What do desires actually feel like? And how can we notice and honour our boundaries?
On my journey to becoming a queer sex coach I have done everything from escorting, to (what we then still called) ‘tantra massage’, to BDSM and conscious kink. In 2017 I was named ‘Sex Worker of the Year’ and received a Sexual Freedom Award. This wide variety of experiences enrich and inform my capacities as a coach.
I identify as a queer, kinky, sex positive, and polyamorous woman and use she or they pronouns. Many of my clients have a lgbtqia+ background too.
“Sessions with Sinsia have helped me love my body more than I could have hoped for. She’s brought my body and mind much closer together. Sinsia is a joy to work with; without her guidance I don’t know where I would be right now. I highly recommend working with Sinsia because she genuinely cares and wants the best for you. I’m eagerly looking forward to future sessions with her.”
“I will carry this experience with me for the rest of my life. I have never been so true to myself in a woman’s company. It helped me grow and change. I have never experienced such a relaxed and deep sense of embodiment and presence. I have come to know myself in a different light. Discovered myself. I want to deeply thank you for that.”
“A breath of fresh air during lockdown. An open mind, a kind heart, and a friendly ear. A welcome treat every session. Thank you, Sinsia”