Take a breath
Feel your body come alive as you fill it with air. Now take another one as you focus on my touch.
What can you feel?
Is it nice, or unpleasant?
Is this a boundary, or a green light?
This is what sex coaching is all about.
I am Sinsia – the queer sex coach – and I am here to support you in creating the sex life of your choice and to help you discover all aspects of your sexuality.
Somatic sex coaching
By using body-focused exercises, we allow your body to direct us
Client led
You are the expert on your own body, so sessions are always a co-creation
Inclusive
I am a queer sex coach and have extensive experience and joy in working with lgbtqia+ people
Trauma-informed
I am trained to notice and handle trauma responses

Sex coaching
With your body as our guide, we will explore desires, boundaries, and pleasure and what they actually feel like in your body.
What do you notice in your body when something truly wonderful happens? Or when you go along with something that is not that great?
Together we will build a practice that helps you notice, value and communicate your desires and boundaries, so you can start making empowered choices about your (sex) life. Even if you discover that sex is not your cup of tea, I can help you find pleasure with non-sexual intimacy coaching.
Read more about what sex
coaching can do for you
Work with me
if you want to:
- explore budding curiosities around your sexuality;
- feel more connected to your body;
- experience more pleasure;
- explore what ‘pleasure’ means to you;
- (re)connect to pleasure after surgery and/or trauma;
- explore scar tissue remediation;
- be more present in your sexuality;
- have more control over if, when, and how you orgasm;
- prioritise your desires over what you think you ‘should’ want;
- learn to notice, value and communicate your boundaries as they come up;
- create a (sex) life centred around what actually feels good, instead of chasing a goal.


Hi! I am Sinsia,
and I simply love bodies and all they can tell us.
I am endlessly curious about what brings us pleasure. What makes us feel safe enough to enjoy our body? What do desires actually feel like? And how can we notice and honour our boundaries?
On my journey to becoming a queer sex coach I have done everything from escorting, to tantra massage, to BDSM and conscious kink. In 2017 I was named ‘Sex Worker of the Year’ and received a Sexual Freedom Award. This wide variety of experiences enriches and informs my capacities as a coach.
I identify as a queer, kinky, sex-positive, and polyamorous person and use they and she pronouns. Most of my clients have a lgbtqia+ background too.
Read more about Sinsia
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Kind words
Chloe&Jamie
“We came to Sinsia to better improve our sexual dynamic to reflect who we are in the present, as opposed to who we’ve been in a long-term partnership. We had a beautiful transformation aided by Sinsia wherein we were able to better communicate and explore new pleasures and dynamics in our partnership.“
Lynn
“My view of sex has become much broader. From a focus on orgasm as the end goal, it is now much more about intimacy, vulnerability, touch. It feels lighter, more playful, more sensual. Sex has become much more of a playing field instead of a race track.”
Veronica
“Sessions with Sinsia have helped me love my body more than I could have hoped for. I highly recommend working with Sinsia because they genuinely care and want the best for you. I’m eagerly looking forward to future sessions.”
