Somatic sex coaching

Feeling what you want in each moment is not easy. Communicating it to another person is a whole different story yet. We are often hindered by what we think we ‘should’ want, what we think the other(s) want(s), by our tendency to follow orgasm rather than what actually feels good, the fear of crossing our own boundaries, or by just not knowing how to be present in our bodies.

What if you would slow down, and closely listen to your body? What if you could really feel the sensations of touch, and notice when a slight change would make it even better? This is what somatic sex coaching is all about.

Somatic sex coaching

My approach


My approach to somatic sex coaching focusses on giving you a more embodied sense of what pleasure, boundaries, and choice actually feel like in your body. We use simple exercises to explore what you need in order to notice and value what is true for you in each moment.

For many queer people, there is an extra layer of complexity to sexuality and embodiment. Many of us have been told that our sexuality and/or body is wrong, that we have to act or be different in order to fit in. For some, the body is a source of discomfort or despair. Bodywork is a beautiful gateway to start inhabiting your body. If you feel uncertain whether or not this approach would work for you, please reach out to discuss your situation and concerns.

Together we’ll build a practice that supports you in making empowered choices about your (sex) life.

Read about the practicalities.